![]() That doesn’t mean the submissive never struggles or fights the limitations though, far from it. Submissives aren’t dissimilar in some respects, but the biggest difference, of course, is that a submissive is choosing to be held to certain standards. They are testing their boundaries as they grow up and experience new things. Keeping that in mind, there’s a reason teenagers fight with their parents a lot. (Though some could argue that if you don’t get mad at your romantic partner now and then that might also be a problem.) In this post I’m aiming specifically at relationships where the Dominant sets rules and maintains discipline. I’m also not referring to relationships that are primarily romantic, so rules and punishment aren’t involved, even though D/s is a part of it. I hate to use the phrase ‘real submission’ as if one kind of submissive is somehow more legit than another, so I need to clarify that I don’t mean limited submission that takes place in the bedroom, or in a club, but the whole relationship deal. But in my experience if you don’t get mad at your Dominant now and then there is usually a problem because with real submission there needs to be both challenge and growth and neither of those come without frustration. So, I don’t make a lot of definitive statements like, “If you do this you are wrong!” Every submissive is unique, every Dominant is unique, so of course each relationship is going to be different. ![]() ![]() I try really hard to be inclusive of everyone and every possible relationship setup when I write these blog posts.
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